what safety in these walls
is that of comfort—
habit brings us together
once again knowing what to expect
in talk, gesture, food, drink
change only in growing older
taller, thinner, softer, more confident
or gray; we still have morning
coffee and cat like clockwork
at the door
for all I have been pacing
restless with sameness
staring out the window
while you wander the world
I turn in again to see it as refuge
from every kind of roiling storm
we close the door and curtains
on thunder’s low mutter
surround ourselves for this moment
in grateful silence
Comes a time when it is our children’s world.
LikeLiked by 1 person
…and may they make something better of it!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I agree with rivrvlogr. And it is not a bad thing. I like the stage of life I am in and I am happy for my son (and daughter-in-law) to step out and take their turn. I am proud of them and satisfied with my own efforts, however of a mixed bag they may have been. This poem says it all. Just beautiful.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Thank you, Claudia. It is a satisfying feeling to see them step out on their own terms.
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is a beautiful poem.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks very much.
LikeLike
Beautiful poem. Our children grow and leave, as they should, but there is a comfort in the familiar rituals of the past.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Exactly. Thank you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
The push and pull of love. (K)
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes, exactly. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
The two words that stick out for me are ‘refuge’ and ‘thunder’. I have one particular daughter in mind. Maybe with time I’ll get to look forward to her visits too…
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh, I like that. I’m sure there is a reason that thunderstorms popped into my mind, and not just the physical kind. 🙂
LikeLike
Daughters. It’s a fifty fifty chance it will be a thundery relationship 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
There can be only one queen per castle!
LikeLike
And the daughter knows which one that’s going to be 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is simply wonderful. Thank you. Have shared it with a friend whose daughter is soon coming home.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you, and thank you for sharing.
LikeLike
Oh! Bittersweet, made more so by my son being away. I’m sure that re-entry will be thundrous. I don’t know why buy your positioning of “grey” made me pause. It’s the emphasis it gives for sure, but I’m not thinking only of literal grey. The grey of spirit.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I can imagine a thunderous re-entry, after so long away! How we all try to get used to each other again–but something to look forward to. 🙂 I see what you mean about the gray…yes. Thank you for deepening that for me.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Love the last stanza, wraps up everything so beautifully. **
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you. I hoped it wasn’t tooooooo sweet. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Lovely! And the temporariness of it all!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you, and yes–the temporariness that is both good and bad. 🙂
LikeLike